[Marilyn]

Sooo sorry you are going through this, especially at this time of year. You've expressed your unhappiness for a very long time. Divorce must be the last resort, but from what you have said about him, unless he will agree to counseling and get some help, you have to take care of yourself and your daughter. If he's been unfaithful, you are definitely off the hook. Didn't you express a concern about possible infidelity in another thread? It seems that a man who is so demanding concerning sex and housework may be looking for is elsewhere already. If not, perhaps your announcement will cause him to wake up and get help. No one can know what is happening in your life but you. We are to love our husbands, but they are also to love their wives, and what he is doing does not sound like love. As others have stated, please make certain that this is the only resort before taking this huge step.

Wishing you the very best!!!