[DianaB]

It sounds like Katie is still moving out, just not as quickly as first thought and Josh needs some extra money. I say be patient because Katie is moving soon and about Josh, could you give him enough money to pay for his first month's rent. Would that help him out? I know that rent in small towns is pretty cheap but you've also been buying Christmas gifts. If that idea won't work for you then I agree with the other girls that you need some time off! Go to someone's house for a day or so and relax and have fun! Or go to a spa!! Get your mind off of your situation! Also, I would put an end to all of the mess! They don't need to treat your home that a way.