[rivermom]

Originally Posted by Tink

I'm here now that I was able to chase Joel off the computer.

I'm all excited today as today is the day the boys are supposed to be moving out!
Neither is talking about it or want to go, but I'm sticking to my guns.

Last night I gave Joel a bunch of empty totes and told him to use them to pack and bring them back when he's done moving so I can use them for storage in what up till now was his bedroom. He just keeps saying "I don't want to live there... I want a place of our (his and shannon) own!" To which I keep replying "Oh I don't blame you, so you'll have to work together to draw up a budget and make that happen ASAP". lol

I'm not "noticing" their reluctance and just bring it up like it's just a casual thing and a given that they'll be gone by the stroke of midnight. LOL It could prove to be a very stressful and difficult day if I let it and I really don't think it should have to be.

I hope your day doesn't end up stressful...Keep thinking of them as each tote is packed and don't let them turn away from the exit door. It'll work out. You are about to start your new year off with a bang!!