I've been with my hubby like 8 years now. And it actually makes me feel really special when we kiss because I know he's not a fan, but he does it because it's important to me. And no we didn't mesh in kissing immediately, but we meshed in every other way. Now that we've been married for a little while I've found that the physical stuff isn't that important to me. I always thought I was a sexual person, but I was just using my body to make people like me. I found a wonderful man who's my best friend & loves everything about me not just my body & that's so much more important. He's not very passionate or emotional, but that is so good for me cause I am very emotional & he keeps me grounded. No one can tell you what's right for you. If he's the right one then He's the right one that's all their is to it & no two relationships are ever the same. I believe some people get divorsed because marriage wasn't what they thought it would be or how it is in the movies. I'm here to tell you that you can never predict how you're relationship will be by looking at others. Everyone's relationship is different so you have to find what works & feels right for you.
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