Thank you all. We have had an even harder time dealing with this loss because mom's levels have dropped. She couldn't go to the funeral. It was also 90 miles away so the drive was much too long for her. I tried telling her that our Uncle knows she loved him and she replied that she isn't sure that he did. I know better. He always called mom first when he got to my grandmother's house. He wouldn't have wanted mom to put herself in danger to go to the wake. In my opinion, seeing someone then means nothing. It's all the times she came to see him while he was here that matters.
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Traci
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