[Janet]

Sounds like a little more than a dliemma Gina. You poor girl. Are you feeling well enough to host a dinner? If not, then tell him to forget it. Or tell them they can come, but you won't be cooking and will be resting some more in your room.

You could look at it that she is just jealous because you can have fantastic family functions and she obviously doesn't know what to do.

I'm not by any means advocating you do what I do, but I don't need drama or toxic people around so I just wouldn't invite her anymore. If she gets you this worked up and it's not even Palm Sunday yet...is it worth it?

I hope you can figure out something for your benefit and I also hope someone else hear can give you some better ideas. For me...I just figure life is way too short to let someone ruin things for me, so I just stay away from them.