My mom was like your MIL, and both of my brothers married women who wait on them. Not me, Girl!!! I'm with you. I think it's arrogant and disrespectful to expect to be waited on hand and foot!
Hubby and I do things for each other all the time, but it's because we want to. There is always a 'please' and a 'thank you' attached to a request, too!
I don't think it's bad that your daughter start to learn to do things, just learn them for herself and not to be someones servant! And it wouldn't hurt for your son to learn the same skills when he gets older.
Would your husband treat your son the same way?
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