[Marilyn]

Haley, you've been given some excellent advise here, so I will try to keep my comments brief. This is 34 going on 35 years of marriage speaking.....there is no perfect marriage. If someone says their's is, they are either lying or deluding themselves. There are certain periods in every marriage where things become difficult and you look at each other and wonder how this happened, how did I marry this person. It sounds like you are in one of those periods. Please give it more time. Try to remember what drew you to him in the beginning of your relationship. All of your lives will be richer later if you can make it through this period. The key is honest, sincere, non-confrontational communication and building trust. You have to communicate lovingly, and not argue. More than likely, you feel like you are doing more for him than he is for you, and he probably feels like he is doing more for you than you are for him. Communication is key!!!!!
Sincerely hope this helps!!!