Well said Diana...
I'm sorry if you guys felt unwelcome... but i think if you all are willing to try, we all need a 2nd chance... i think this can be an even better community with so many different perspectives...
as i said before we learn from each other, that doesn't mean thought that we are here to "shove" things down others throats... and i thin i can speak for most when i say that we'll try harder to not come accross as preachy, and such... it is an online community and as such it presents it's communication problems that we have to deal with as best we can... so i think we can make it work...

so, here's to a new start:
Hello Ladies, how are you today?