Oh Janet! I'm so sorry you are having these problems with your SIL. I don't have any advice for you other than to hang in there, stick to your guns of not bailing her out of trouble, and hopefully things will be okay. Sometimes, we all have to dish out "tough love" to a family member and that's what she obviously needs - someone to tell her NO for a change! Keep your chin up and you come vent and lean on our shoulders any time
