[Janet]

Right after we were married I was laid of from my job and I put on a bunch of weight and my hubby told a friend of his he thought of divorce because I gained so much. Well I wish he would have sought divorce, but anyway.. I did lose and got back to my original weight and from there on kept gaining.

I want to lose now because I want to for me..not for him. He's really skinny and looks awful. I should give him pay back, but I'm not like that and wouldn't hurt anyone feelings on purpose...