I'm so sorry you're going through all this - the stress of having a new baby is enough but add on everything else you're going through - my heart goes out to you. Things will work out for you, you have to have faith and belive in that. God never gives us more than we can handle - although there are times we would like to argue that fact - but He doesn't!
As for the job issue, check the classifieds in your Sunday paper. Most companies only post job openings on Sunday as that's the biggest circulation day for the papers. Also, are there any temp agencies in your area? A lot of times, a person ends up with a permanent job simply by going through a temp agency for a probationary period - usually 90 days or so. And do what Cecil said, make several copies of your resume and mail them out to local clinics. I don't know what your area of specialty is at the nursing home but physician's office could be looking for a front desk receptionist, a file clerk, PRN nursing position (again, I don't know your specialty, whether nursing, lab tech, file clerk, etc.) - the point is, don't give up searching. Don't rely on your friend as it's obvious she's not going to be much help - do it yourself! Where in California are you? The hospital I work for just opened a facility out there - not sure exactly where but somewhere in the LA area. Not sure if there are openings there but I'd be more than happy to check. It's a great company to work for
Keep your chin up!
Suzi