My husband and I have had "the discussion". We both know what the other's wishes are. My daughter and her bf sang a song from the broadway show Wicked at the 8th grade variety show. So, one day we were talking about funerals and I said "I want that song from Wicked sung at my funeral" (meaning "For Good") My son pipes up with "What? 'No On Mourns The Wicked'? He's funny. ha.ha,ha.