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Diana,
I am so sorry, that was a very hurtful thing to say. We rarely have any contact with my DH family. They still hold it against him for moving to OK from NJ. We have been married for 15 years and not one person in his family has ever come to visit us. We have gone back several times. The last time we said to ourselves we are done. We will not go back up there again.
When my DH was a small boy (his mother and father divorced), his father remarried and when his new wife was due to have a baby, he pulled my DH aside and told him that he (my FIL) had a new family now and could not spend time with him.
People can be mean to thier own family. Some day, when (if) they stand before God, he will have something to say about it.
All you can do is move on and don't waste you time on things/people that are hurtful.
You are a wonderful person, don't believe what anyone else says. It is thier loss!
Michelle
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