[Janet]

Elaine, I know you are hurting and missing your Jersey girl. Of course it's easy for me to say don't second guess yourself, we all do it. But you saved your girl from misery. This was done out of love. If there was a brain abnormality and it was causing her to be aggressive, she could have been seriously hurt in a fight or one of the others could have been seriously hurt or killed. Keep telling yourself that you loved her so much you could stand for her to be confused or in any kind of pain. I think you did the right thing, some would let their baby suffer because they couldn't stand the loss. You put Jersery girl above your feelings and what a selfless act that was.