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Dobie, I've worked in nursing homes and know it's a tough job and if you don't love it and the people there, you really should find a different kind of work. Those people deserve respect and caring helpers and I get the impression that's what you strive for... So they're lucky to have you.

Please try not to let others opinions and judgments get you down. It's wrong to generalize and judge you based on others poor experiences. Just do the job the best you can and you'll prove their opinions were wrong. That's much more effective than arguing with them anyway.

HUGS