See Ike post for my update.
Lindsey, I don't think anyone here will judge you for being in an all ladies pole dancing class. A friend of mine does belly dancing for the same reason. I think she may do it for her hubby as well, but there's no problem with that!!
Just don't do it professionally, okay!!
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Marilyn 
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