[Janet]

Lindsey, he has tried the strips and the sprays and a few other odds and ends, but doesn't like them so he makes me miserable instead. Some of the things (strips and a spray) actually worked pretty good...not all the time, but good. He just won't use them. I've even reminded him, put them on his nightstand and he just won't.

I just feel now it's time to do something about it. I know of quite a few other couples that have separate rooms for the same reason. They 'come together' when they want to, but have a good nights sleep separately. I feel sometimes like I could lose my mind.

He looks at it as rejection I think...it's not that (totally)..I just want my much needed uninterruupted sleep.