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Originally Posted by Lindsey
I actually did make noise in the morning too lol... it's also something the two of us did together last winter when my brother decided to have a big party on a weeknight when we had to work in the morning and he didn't. We got up early and blasted Christmas music throughout the house  They had gone to sleep an hour earlier, and the house cleared out pretty quickly.
But yesterday morning I got up and had a shower, made coffee, made breakfast, all while watching the dog whisperer pretty loudly on tv. Last night, after the apology and everything, I heard her on the phone with someone complaining "I tried watching a movie when I got up, and she had it just CRANKED. I don't know how she could hear me at 2 in the morning when she can't even hear the tv at a normal level" Oh well. |
Obviously subtlety doesn't work. You're going to have to sit her down & have a heart to heart. Drunk or not it's no excuse. Maybe write down the things you want to address so it doesn't get heated. I'm so sorry she feels she is worth so little & doesn't deserve better. I wish there was a way you could make her see that, but I know from experience it's very hard to open people's eyes to how wonderful & special they truely are. You cannot worry yourself with the choices she makes though, you can only control your choices. Now when her choices infringe on your sanity you have every right to address it.