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Old 09-22-2008, 02:37 PM   #20
Lindsey
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Yes, she has definite self-esteem issues deep down, and I really don't think there's anything I can do to help it. I've tried. She's sort of the kind of person (and this isn't just my judgement, I've heard the same thing from many people who know her) who feels badly about herself PHYSICALLY so she tries to be the person who knows everything, who is always right (which is why I was so surprised she apologized!), thinks she has tons of friends, etc. It sometimes gets a little annoying. She talks herself up a lot, especially to people she barely knows, and it seems all to be an effort to make people like her. When really, she's be tons more likeable just being herself. And I think sex is the same thing... it's attention, and a way to maybe make a guy like her. I think she feels like if she doesn't sleep with a guy right away, he'll lose interest. But that's just what happens... he gets it right off the bat, so he does lose interest. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?
Anyways... I think the apology she gave me was enough for now, even if she is complaining about me to her friends now. I mean, I'm complaining to you guys about her! It's different because her friends know me, but it doesn't bother me too much.
Oh and I agree... drunk isn't a good excuse. It's rude no matter what.
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