[Mandy]

I just saw this now, oh Janet.... so sorry this is all going on, it's not good for either of you.
It's a tough time of the year to find a job, well it is here, so i'm guessing it must be the same in the US?
Well girl, i certainly hope he gets sorted out soon!!
I know what you mean by, not setting a good example for your son, and i agree with you.
Now that he is at home, give him tons of chores to do around the house so he stays active, sitting at home is not good for hes self esteem, so while hes working around the house he might get ideas of what he needs to do.