[Marilyn]

Nikki, I'm another old married who married young, so have not been in your shoes, however, my mother was 38 when she married my father and then she had me, so I know that happiness can be found and children can be had when the time is right for the person. There is no set recipe for the timing of events in life that we have to follow. I'm sure my mother probably had the feelings that you are having. All her friends married and had children way before her. As others have said, take time to nurture yourself as you seem to be doing, and Mr. Right will come along when you least expect it. He may be near you now, but doesn't know you yet.

Enjoy life and let it show, some nice guy will be watching and want to get to know you. Just make sure you can recognize the trolls. Wish you the best!!

BTW, welcome to 4WT. Please stick around a while, get to know us, and let us get to know you.