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Originally Posted by Blueyes
Wow! I would never, ever invite my sons gf anywhere and then expect HER to pay for it! And if I had treated a gf that way, my sons would have had a FIT!!! If you are seeing red flags here, pay attention to them sweetie. That being said, I have learned that everybody has differences. I have always paid for things for my kids if I possibly could.. because I want to, not because they expect it. A bad "mother-in law" can cause lots of problems in a relationship. I am blessed with fabulous dil's, and we all appreciate our relationship. I taught my sons that when they got married, their wives came first...I had to because my sons and I are very close 
I'm glad you got to meet them. Maybe things will get more comfortable with time  |
Wow!! I agree with blueyes.. First of all I would never do that to my sons g/f and secondly my son would never allow that. They may be religious people but they are very rude people. I am sorry to say that. His mom should have told him before hand about the cost of tickets if she didnt want to pay for you, then she should have asked Scott to pay for it. If the aunt could not afford to feed everyone then she should not have invited you for dinner and take out chinese food to boot. If someone really can't afford it, have them over for coffee if you just want to get together.
Lindsey he sounds like a mamas boy and he tries to please her. She probably puts guilt on him everytime. I am a mother of a son and I never interfere, matter of fact when my son is wrong I tell him and side up with his girlfriend. I see lots of red flags here , thread with caution this woman and this family are not going to be easy to get along with. You have been warned! lol
Believe me when you marry a person you do marry the family.