[magnolia]

Hi Carole!

First of all, thank you for thinking enough of us to come "lean on our shoulders". It takes a brave person to post what you did and I admire and respect you for sharing.

I agree with Janet - cut the ties with your "friend"!! As long as she remains a part of your life, she will always bring the hurt she caused you to the forefront - a constant reminder of a very painful part in your life. As Janet said, no friend would do that to another and expect, when things are over, to remain friends. I realize it may be hard for you to do as the two of you were so close but it will go a long way in mending the damage between you and your husband. It will take a long time for you to regain the trust you once had for him and the life you have together - why "bog" it down with constant reminders from her?

Of course, we don't know what is truly in your heart and how you feel and who's to say what we would do if placed in the same position as you are in. Basically, what it comes down to is following your heart in this situation. What is it telling you to do? And trust in God to help you get through this ALWAYS helps!!

Know that we are all here for you - sending you lots of prayers and (((((hugs)))))!

God bless,
Suzi