Totally understand Judy, i will say it again, you are one patient lady!!
Ay Ay Ay men!
will never understand them!
My dishwashing machine gave up the ghost, for weeks it was just standing there, the more i thought of it the more frustrated i became, so i finally told him that i would take it to the scrap yard because i had ordered another one and will give it to him for a fathersday gift, and guess what?! Next thing it was up and working again, he had opened it up himself, all it needed was a new washer stuck in!