Sorry you're having a difficult time with this. Are there any friends that have older teenagers that wouldn't mind coming to your home....Would this be just for over night or from Friday til Sunday? Is there someone in your church family that would be able to help out....keep asking around so you'll have plenty of time to find someone you trust. What about all the other couples going to the party? Wouldn't it be nice if they found someone for all the kids...kind of like a slumber party for them??? Just wanted to help with some ideas.
