I'm so sorry, Janet.
I would be SO incredibly pissed, too, if something like this happened to me. Did your hubby sound remorseful or sorry that he didn't tell you? I think you need to have a serious come to Jesus talk with him! Sounds like things just keep getting worse at your home. Of course, I know you only tell us the bad things that happen. I am sure there are some good things, too. But, WE'RE HERE FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!! (((((((HUGS!!)))))))