[rivermom]

We both are equal really, but in reality I still place my husband as "head of the household". Big stuff we discuss ($$), little stuff we don't even talk about. Our business he definitely has control over regarding employee's, purchases, the way it's ran, etc.

My previous marriage I felt i was in charge of everything, my ex-husband is a totally weak and lying sorry ass of a person. I found it completely draining to "not have a man" in my life.

So, my marriage now I find it extreamly comforting to know I am under my husbands wing sorta say. It works for us and we both are happy by the way our lives are lead with each other.