Bad Hair Day...I mean month!!!

[Taurus Babe]

Do we have any beautitions (sp?) out there? I swear, I am so fed up with my hair. I've had bad hair days for a month now and it's driving me crazy! I usually straighten it cause I have ugly waves that just frizz up and go all over the place, but recently my hair has been looking too puffy, or too flat, and has been doing this horrible half flippy-poop curl at the bottom! I have soo many products, but nothing is helping. Any advice for a perma-white-girl-frizz-fro? Thanks!