It is so on....

[Willow]

So I don't know WHY but my husband has a burr up his ass for some reason and this morning he told me my dogs have to go EXCUSE ME???????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I told him my dogs STAY and he can go. He said he is sick and tired of waking up in the morning and seeing their accidents. I already told him I will buy a crate and start crating them at night. He is also tired of them jumping in the bed at night and he told me either they go or he goes. My reply? "Don't let the door hit ya."

Then he said when I bring Maddie home she will not be allowed in the house...Um...yeah right! I told him since I am the one who paid for the place then it is what I say goes. He even tossed Gizmo outside this morning, and I do mean tossed! I ran out there and brought her back in and he tried to catch her to put her back out but I blocked his way and refused to allow him to. He said she is his dog and he is going to give her away. I said fine, she is mine now.

So he is sitting on the couch pouting now. There has to be more to this than the dogs getting on his nerves, but he has me so pissed right now that I told him as soon as I find a place me and the dogs and the kids will be moving and his reply was "Good."

[Janet]

Originally Posted by Willow

So I don't know WHY but my husband has a burr up his ass for some reason and this morning he told me my dogs have to go EXCUSE ME???????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I told him my dogs STAY and he can go. He said he is sick and tired of waking up in the morning and seeing their accidents. I already told him I will buy a crate and start crating them at night. He is also tired of them jumping in the bed at night and he told me either they go or he goes. My reply? "Don't let the door hit ya."

Then he said when I bring Maddie home she will not be allowed in the house...Um...yeah right! I told him since I am the one who paid for the place then it is what I say goes. He even tossed Gizmo outside this morning, and I do mean tossed! I ran out there and brought her back in and he tried to catch her to put her back out but I blocked his way and refused to allow him to. He said she is his dog and he is going to give her away. I said fine, she is mine now.

So he is sitting on the couch pouting now. There has to be more to this than the dogs getting on his nerves, but he has me so pissed right now that I told him as soon as I find a place me and the dogs and the kids will be moving and his reply was "Good."

So sorry you're going through a rough time, but I would do the same thing. Not that I'm condoning it, I just love my babies more....Maybe once he cools down or the burr up his a$$ is unlodged, you both can get to the root of the problem.

Also, you said in your post that you paid for the place....if anyone leaves...he should.

[BabyNicole]

Damn girl! I'm sorry you are going through this! Does he normally get in these pissy moods? If not, you're right something else must be bothering him. Maybe jealous of the dog with a new one on the way?

I live with my cousin in a brand new house (built in 2005) that we bought together. Baby pees and poops all over. Yes, he gets annoyed, as do I, but neither of I want to give her away! And Baby is technically mine, not his.

Why don't you cool off for a bit, and then ask him what's up his arse?

Good luck! And please tell us how everything goes.

PS. Being a little more nosey...how long have you been married, and do you normally have a great relationship?

[Taurus Babe]

Gosh, he's being such a jerk!! Maybe once you both cool down a bit you can sit down and ask him if there's anything you can talk about? I hope he gets over this little tantrum!!
I recently taught Thor to stay off the bed after he'd been allowed on the bed his whole life. It took two days for him to not even try to get up. Lemme know if you want some tips!! Good luck!

[khardy57]

Sounds like something else is bothering him. Maybe some cool down time will help.

[magnolia]

I agree - something else has got to be bothering him and he's taking it out on you and the furbabies. I would try to talk to him to find out what is the real, true reason for his actions and why he's so upset. Sending you lots of hugs and prayers!