My husband and I got married when I was 18 and he was 20. That was nearly three years ago. Everyone said it was a mistake to get married at such a young age, but neither of us (even now) would have it any other way. We've truly been blessed with a loving and happy marriage, but that doesn't mean we don't have our problems. At times, I am overly emotional, and like some of you other ladies here, I push him away. We rarely argue, but when we do I get very hurt and let my emotions take control. I'll say stupid things like I don't need him and such, mostly to convince myself. But he will never let me push him away for long. He's so patient and understanding and always forgives me when I'm wrong. On average, we probably have an argument once a month or so. (This doesn't include minor disagreements; we usually handle those jokingly.) This is such a small part of our lives and we really do enjoy spending our time together. I can't imagine my life without him. I feel that he pushes me to always do better, become better, be a better person. He encourages me. He makes me think. He makes me laugh and smile. He trusts me. He loves me. I only hope that I make him feel even half as good as he makes me feel.
I'm truly blessed.
So, to answer the question...this is my first marriage and we are very happy together.
03-02-2007, 11:03 AM
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