Don't know what to do!

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Haley, most separations end up in divorce. I hope you don't end up there. The other ladies have given wonderful advice as usual. I hope it works out for you!

This is my second marriage. My first one lasted 7 yrs and I divorced him. Even though it was me who wanted out, it was darn hard to start over and to raise a child between two separate households. If you think it's hard to deal with your MIL now... imagine what it's like to deal with your ex's new wife helping to raise your child!

You're under an incredible amount of stress, but that means it's time to start pulling together instead of apart. I've been married 22 yrs this time and it's not always perfect, but like anything worht having, it's worth putting some effort into and pays you back accordingly.

**fingers crossed for you!**