i think i need to put some fire under his... hiney :)

no hes not a virgin... and neither am i.. i just made the choice awhile ago that i wanted to wait and phil did the same (ironically before we met) so im a re-virgin lol no.. i dont kid myself.. i messed up and it took along time for me to forgive myself but phil and I forgave each other and decided to never look back on it again. Im so glad to hear that it worked out for you...maybe it will for me!! maybe phil is just scared that ill say no..... hmmm i like that theory

Originally Posted by Ponyup

Is he a virgin too? Just curious. My husband & I don't have a mushy relationship at all, but one day I decided he was the one & blurted out I wanna marry you & he said like right now & i'm like whenever & we started looking for rings. My hubby is not a risk taker at all, & didn't want to get turned down if he asked so it worked out better that I let him know I wanted to marry him first. I think you need to sit him down & tell him how you feel. No manipulation just honest I love you I want to be your wife talk. If he freaks out then he is not the one for. You need to know now before you waste anymore time on him.