Should we keep quiet?

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I am so sorry that you are having to go through all this with your daughter. You are definately doing the right thing by having her in counseling. It sounds like you are doing all the right things. I do not have children so I have no idea how I would handle something like this. Do you think it would help for you and your husband to talk to a professional as well? Maybe a family counselor who can help you and your husband decide how to handle these types of situations. Maybe you and your hubby could go together and then you both go with your daughter. It just sounds like nothing you are doing seems to be helping but something DEFINATELY needs to be done, and soon, before something else terrible happens. I watch the show Intervention on A&E and on every single episode, the families have to get counseling as well as the one who is having problems. The family has to go through counseling so they will know how to handle situations when they arise. Maybe something like this would be beneficial to you and your husband.