help... i have a nightmare coming in 2 weeks

the bad thing about his family is they say one thing "oh hunny i dont care what we eat" and they mean "i want this this, and this" and when you serve them "that that and that" they look at you like... "what in the world were you thinking???" its gonna be ghetto enough b/c im going to have to put my dining table(which is in storage) in my living room in place of my couch lol ... i guess what phil's family thinks is reaaalllly important to him... so its now become obsessive to me!!! we really do need to just sit down.. and plan it all...its just going to be hell .