Have you ever cheated on your husband?

Ponyup · 11-29-2006, 07:59 AM

I had to vote other because I guess it's what you define as cheating. I kissed another guy before we got married, not make-out just a kiss. I personally don't think a kiss is cheating, but kisses can mean more & lead to other things so I try to stear clear of doing it now. I was drunk & my hubby & I were long distance & he hates to kiss anyway. I'm a kisser, I love to kiss & just kiss like when you were in jr. high/high school & would kiss for days (my high school boyfriend was the best kisser). Anyway, it was a one time thing & it hasn't happened since. I never told him & I never will. I never saw the guy again either.

I guess that's the one thing I really don't like about my relationship is that he's not a kisser. But the reason I liked him was because he seemed to be into me for reasons other than physical, like all the other boys, & I liked that. I guess you can't have it both ways, but sometimes I wish you could. Like I wanna say it's great that you love me for my mind, but now I want you to love me for my body. But he's my best buddy & I wouldn't trade him for anything.

View Poll Results: Have you ever cheated?
No, I have never cheated on my significant other	29	78.38%
Yes, but it was before we got married, and hubby never found out	2	5.41%
Yes, it was before we got married, and hubby found out but we stayed together	0	0%
Yes, it was before we got married, hubby found out and he divorced me	0	0%
Yes, it was after we were married, hubby found out and we divorced	0	0%
Yes, it was after we were married, hubby found out, and we stayed together	0	0%
Yes, it was after we were married and hubby never found out	1	2.70%
I am currently cheating on my hubby and he doesn't know	1	2.70%
Other -- please explain	4	10.81%
Voters: 37. You may not vote on this poll

11-29-2006, 07:59 AM	#5
Ponyup Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Indiana Posts: 659	I had to vote other because I guess it's what you define as cheating. I kissed another guy before we got married, not make-out just a kiss. I personally don't think a kiss is cheating, but kisses can mean more & lead to other things so I try to stear clear of doing it now. I was drunk & my hubby & I were long distance & he hates to kiss anyway. I'm a kisser, I love to kiss & just kiss like when you were in jr. high/high school & would kiss for days (my high school boyfriend was the best kisser). Anyway, it was a one time thing & it hasn't happened since. I never told him & I never will. I never saw the guy again either. I guess that's the one thing I really don't like about my relationship is that he's not a kisser. But the reason I liked him was because he seemed to be into me for reasons other than physical, like all the other boys, & I liked that. I guess you can't have it both ways, but sometimes I wish you could. Like I wanna say it's great that you love me for my mind, but now I want you to love me for my body. But he's my best buddy & I wouldn't trade him for anything.

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