Hubby unhappy with job

[Ponyup]

I'm so frustrated. My hubby had a good job in his field when we lived in Madison, IN. I was having a hard time finding a job & my dad wanted me to come work for him. So he made up a job for my hubby. We took the jobs & moved. When we got here the job for my hubby wasn't what was promised & he was unhappy. He complained to my dad who told him if he didn't like it he could quit so he did. He looked for a job for over a year & couldn't find one. So I worked him back into the company. He ended up being a planner & then a scheduler. He hated the scheduling, but it was a job. Now he's been moved to an actual engineer (in title only) position. He is so bored & so unhappy. I want to believe he's lookin for a job, but I don't really know. He says he can't find anything. I try to help, but I feel like he doesnt' want me to. I just feel aweful & that his career is crappy because my dad made us move, by lying. He has an electrical engineer degree from Rose Hulman, but he hasn't used it in like 5 years. I feel all that money he payed is now wasted because of me. I want to help, but I don't know how. I've already told him I would move anywhere or do anything for his career, but it still seems pretty stagnant. I'm just hoping we're kind of stuck here for a reason right now. mY mom needs a lot of help with my g-pa & we've been really needed in that area. Maybe once my g-pa is gone (not that i wish that, but he's not getting any younger) something will come up for hubby. Here's hoping. I'm just frustrated & I feel so aweful for him.