Would like to read what your advice would be:

[DianaB]

I can tell that this is a hard thing to let your daughter do. I'm sure that you're very worried about it and I can understand why. I agree with Janet in saying that your daughter needs to do a lot of talking to the doctor and weigh this decision very carefully. She and her husband need to be in complete agreement. Keep us posted on what's going on so we can keep her in our prayers.