abusive relationship help

Originally Posted by JingleT

My opinion is that, no matter what anyone tells you or shares with you here, you are going to make excuses for him and yourself. I think you both need counseling..PRONTO!

You sound very immature, so as another poster advised, do not bring babies into your life until you've grown up and figured out that it's not OK to hit anyone ever for any reason (unless of course you are defending yourself against a physical attack) No excuses. I don't see how you can't understand that. Until you do, you don't need to be in any relationship.

He sounds like a ticking time bomb and the next time it might be worse! As long as you keep making excuses and don't do anything to change the situation, nothing will change. You're in for a lot of grief.

i am immature? how? and when did i ever say i am going to have a child? i am 23 and i said he is or was my bf.. and i didnt make excuses.. depression and family issues are a huge huge thing right now for me and i was saying in my post (if you even read that far) that he was the only one there for me so its not easy for me to just let him go.

as far as the hitting thing.. ive already gave my opinion on that as you did too.. take it or leave it.

thank you janet, gina and everyone else who gave their opinions.. im taking it all into consideration.