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Old 01-25-2010, 10:48 AM   #1
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Holy Moly! Janet!! It's not petty - it's a continual symptom! Rant all you want.

AND, I do have the most wonderful husband on the board (sorry gals ), but let me tell you, I was married before Gary, for 8 years of hell! I was fortunate enough to be able to pick up my daughter, leave and file for divorce. It was a very terrible and unhappy situation. I simply could not have lived that way any longer. Plus there was drug use and after Brooke came along, I could no longer tolerate it.

So, I do completely understand how one incident which might seem petty, is enough to send you right over the edge. I really admire you for sticking around for so long, I know it is very very tough!
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Old 01-25-2010, 11:04 AM   #2
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Janet, that's what we're here for! Living with a guy like that is no fun. Mike can be a really big jerk sometimes. It's like he has cycles of being kind and sweet, and then he is a selfish, argumentative butthead for a while. It makes me crazy, lol!

I'm glad you have a plan. Stick to it. For YOU!!

We love you, and when you need to blow off steam, just let 'er rip
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Old 01-25-2010, 11:06 AM   #3
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No Janet that certainly isn't a petty thing! You do not deserve to be treated with such disrespect. I hope things are better for you soon.

Like Gayle, I have a wonderful husband but was married to one of the biggest aholes on the face of this earth, the devil would be easier to get along with. There was physical and mental abuse along with the drugs too. Thankfully I was able to take my 3 little boys and get out, that was about 25 years ago. And I still didn't find Mr. Right until 10 yrs ago.

Better things are coming to you..I just know it! You are a wonderful and caring person Janet! I am praying that you can get this all worked out and you are able to do what is best for JANET
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Old 01-25-2010, 05:15 PM   #4
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So now I have to go wash away the tears before the boys get home. You all make me feel so good and that my feelings have validation. Thank you for that. I love you!
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Old 01-25-2010, 05:27 PM   #5
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Old 01-25-2010, 05:38 PM   #6
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I love you too Janet!
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Old 01-25-2010, 06:41 PM   #7
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Janet, you are very loved and APPRECIATED on this board for your MANY wonderful qualities. It's too bad that someone right under your nose doesn't see and appreciate them!
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Old 01-25-2010, 08:54 PM   #8
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I'm sorry, Janet, that Rick is being........well,........a man!!! Sometimes they can be so insensitive. I have a solution.......I'll trade you one selfish MIL for your husband!!! Believe me....you'd soon want him back!!!! Vent away any time!!!!
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