The kids just left.....

[Janet]

Judy....you are one brave woman. Kassidy sure sounds like a handful, don't blame you at all wanting to wait until she gets out of the phase.

I recently had to deal with two girls on my bus route. One was going home crying every day after school. The other girl was telling her that her hair was real ugly and she should cut it off. Also said her clothes looked like they were old clothes and she should wear something better. Both girls ride my bus.....one is the daughter of a Jr. High teacher. The sad part......they are both in kindergarten. I find it's starting earlier and earlier. These kids need more instruction time from thier parents or from someone who knows the correct behavior. Makes me really sad.

I'm really glad Mackenzie has you Judy.

[DianaB]

You had a tough evening!!! The drama that girls deal with is very difficult and having a group of three.........not good. It's hard to watch our kids and grandchildren deal with all of these things. Try to give the kids your helpful advice or just listen to their problems......then let them know that you're sorry and tell them how special they are and how much you love them. I try to always let my grandchildren leave happy that Grandma's on their side and that she loves them very much.......and I can go punch out any kids lights for them!!!!! You're a wonderful Grandmother!!!!

[paula1961]

Wow Judy!! I know how it feels to have 3 at the same time!! Let's just say.... it can be a real pain!! Two of mine are 7 and 9 (boy and girl), sometimes they get into fights over toys and such, but when they punch each other, I yell too!! The "I hate you" thing is just another stage they go through. Don't sweat it!

Hopefully MacKenzie's drama with her friends will work itself out soon.
I agree with Gayle, just try to make her feel special.

Have fun shopping!! You deserve it

[judy]

Thanks for all of your good advice. I really am heartbroken for Mackenzie. I'm sure you all know how it feels when one of your own is hurting. I do think that Mackenzie needs more of her own activities. I love your Abigail's solution, Gayle. A friend from another school is a great idea. I leave Mackenzie a loving message on fb every day, and we chat a lot at night. I am glad to see that she has not been on fb today. I do not like it for kids her age.

Love does not come without great cost, and I know that feeling your loved one's pain is such a big part of it, but I hate it!!! Who doesn't?

Thanks for all of your words. They really help, especially reminding me that this happens all of the time.

I will beat up that mean girl for you Gayle!

[gja1000]

Originally Posted by judy

I will beat up that mean girl for you Gayle!

And I would let you, Judy! She was just a wench! But as a grownup now, she's OK - we even talk some on FB and she seems like she mellowed into a nice adult. But there will always be those childhood memories of her meanness!

So, if she ever starts up again Judy, I'll be sure to let you know!