My girl

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Judy (big sigh), I would be saying the exact same things as you are, but inside I'd be thinking - OMG! What is wrong with you people!!!

I always take the safest route - I'm not much of a risk-taker. So, I only had one child because I was worried that I couldn't afford two, and I had/have a great career. I can't imagine having MS and thinking about having another child, especially when I have 3 already and ESPECIALLY when my husband does not have a job. That just blows my mind, really it does, I can't imagine having only one income, and thinking in any way shape or form about having another baby, especially in light of having MS. I would be thinking what if something happens to me and I can't work, ever again, what will happen to my family. I would be terrified of that. But like I said, I'm not much of a risk-taker.

Judy, I wish you and them the best - I guess that's all you can do.