Time for the Nitty Gritty...

[Mandy]

That's ok girl, vent away!! We are all here to listen to each other

Mine is just about non existing in my opinion. In my fiance's opinion.....I just want it more than most people. I tell him that this is probably true, however, I definately don't get it even as much as the average person.

We've been together for 5 years.....but honestly, we've never had a hoppin sex life since day one. He has always said that he's just not interested in it that much. If everything else with him wasn't so good....I'd be gone.

I will admit that I get really frustrated trying to understand his lack of interest. We both work out regularly & are healthy & the sex is great when we do have it! I am definately the man though.....I always instigate it!!

oh boy....poor baby!!! IMO it sounds like he is being selfish and using the meds as his excuse to not give you what you want...sex or a baby....i guess you could just wait till he's asleep and just help yourself!!! Seriously maybe you should just sit down with him and tell him that you REALLY want to have a child. I know you probably already have but maybe you should give him an ultimatum....a fullfilling sex life for both of you and a child or children also....if he can't fill that position maybe he isn't the man you thought he was and you don't want to spend the rest of your life wondering what if??? You sound like a very sweet person and i think you would make a wonderful mother esp. in dealing with tough situatuions like you are now with your man. If he still is being hard-headed about it...go get a.i.-you won't be cheating on him or adopt. i get upset for you when I think that when he wants it, you are supposed to just lay down and spread 'em but when you want it he acts like you are wanting a damn kidney or something! men!!!:

[RLC12345678]

It seems like hubby and I are rarely on the same "wavelength." Whenever he's in the mood, I'm not. But when I'm in the mood, he's not. We both work full-time, so it's hard to get in the mood at the same time because usually one of us is just too tired. I will have to say more often than not, it is my hubby that wants it and I'm not in the mood than vice versa. It is definately something I really need to work on because the sex is GREAT and I would LIKE to have sex more, but I'm usually just too tired to get in the mood. Now we are having sex about once a week or 3 times a month at least.