Self Gratification

[Amber_lv]

Originally Posted by ice queen

does this mean he's cheating on you with himself???hahahalol!!!no i've caught my hubby doing it and it doesn't bother me...sometimes i'm like eeewwww and walk out of the room and other times i'm like "hey big boy...ya need some help with that?" what can i say....

Rotflmao you are so funny my husband would die and go to heaven if i asked him if he wanted help lol

[Necee419]

I don't think it is cheating. I have actually encouraged my husband to "handle his business" on my period weeks when he is crawling out of his skin. He refuses because he says he left those days behind when he met me. Now as someone else said, if it replaces sex altogether, then there is a problem.

[Ponyup]

No it's not cheating. However, if I'm ready, willing & available he better be doing me & not miss rosie palms. However, if for some reason I am not available I would rather that than him getting it from someone else.

There have been times in the past where I really needed to get off & he wasn't in the mood or whatever & I would of totally manually stimulated myself if I wasn't terrified to do so. I don't know why, but I've never been able to take care of myself, I really wish I could, but I get really self-conscious.

Originally Posted by Ponyup

No it's not cheating. However, if I'm ready, willing & available he better be doing me & not miss rosie palms. However, if for some reason I am not available I would rather that than him getting it from someone else.

There have been times in the past where I really needed to get off & he wasn't in the mood or whatever & I would of totally manually stimulated myself if I wasn't terrified to do so. I don't know why, but I've never been able to take care of myself, I really wish I could, but I get really self-conscious.

i used to be like that but when my hubby got sent to iraq i needed something to work the knots out and sitting on the washing machine wasn't cutting it!!! so one day me and my best friend went to the "toy" store as i call it and we picked up some stuff that worked for me...plus if you are self-conscious about actually touching yourself that is what these things are for. my fav....it's kinda expensive but it's da BOMB is the jackrabbit-get the waterproof so you can take a bubble bath and take care of yourself too!!! i thought my hubby would be all jealous but it actually turned him on and sometimes we use toys when we are making love,,,,,there is nothing wrong with trying new things!!! so be sure to buy a lot of batteries!!!good luck and hope this helps