I'm In The Doghouse..or Worse

[DianaB]

Maybe a talk with Rick is what you need....not to fall in love again but to get some of the resentment towards him resolved. He needs to know why you're angry with him so he can work on it. You both have a lot to resolve between the two of you just so you can at least live in a peaceful home. Don't get angry with him when you have your talk but remain calm so you can work things out. You can learn to get along better.....for Ricky's sake. Remember it takes two......to make a marriage......or destroy a marriage. It's never just one person's fault.

[Janet]

That's true. When we spoke the other night...he was the one that got a little loud. I wasn't angry at all. He asked questions...I answered calmly. I'm pretty much done with the anger so if he wants to talk about it again this weekend we can. I really don't want a divorce...I just want to live as partners...does that make sense? The marital feelings just aren't there anymore. We'll see....either way...I'm at peace with whatever happens.

[judy]

It sounds like youy know exactly what you want to do, so I would imagine you will get it. There isn't really anything to fight over.

[Janet]

You're a wise one Judy. Life is just way too short to fight over anything.