Have you ever cheated on your husband?

I picked other. My husband cheated on me twice since we have been married and once before we were married. I always said I would never cheat, but lately I have been contemplating it. I worry, I will not be able to live with myself afterwards.

[khardy57]

Originally Posted by Izzy'smom

I picked other. My husband cheated on me twice since we have been married and once before we were married. I always said I would never cheat, but lately I have been contemplating it. I worry, I will not be able to live with myself afterwards.

My first husband cheated on me from the beginning. He told me this about it:

The first time was the hardest. That's when I had to deal with my conscience. It got easier every time after that.

A word of advice, when I caught him, the other woman DID NOT come out on top! You will be putting yourself in an extremely dangerous situation. Believe me, I tried to shoot my ex, but I was so pissed that I was trembling and missed. If I had been able to keep my cool, he'd be dead and I'd be in jail. If you're not happy, get out of the marriage - then do whatever you want.

[Tink]

My first hubby cheated on me for much of our 7 yr marriage. I absolutely hated him for it. He would go out with another woman and come home and tell me where he'd been, who he'd been with, what they'd done and how I compared to her in bed. It was emotionally devastating to me, as you might imagine.

I have not, and WOULD not ever do anything like that to anyone. I couldn't live with myself after. I would have no self respect left if I did.

[Gina]

Originally Posted by Tink

My first hubby cheated on me for much of our 7 yr marriage. I absolutely hated him for it. He would go out with another woman and come home and tell me where he'd been, who he'd been with, what they'd done and how I compared to her in bed. It was emotionally devastating to me, as you might imagine.

I have not, and WOULD not ever do anything like that to anyone. I couldn't live with myself after. I would have no self respect left if I did.

I must say he was scum to do it and then tell you. The gall and you lasted seven years with him.. I see why you hated him..

[katcarasella]

I just found this, a spider was looking at it.

I never cheated on Pete!

[HALEY]

No i would never cheat on my husband, but we are talking about getting a divorce this summer when the joint bills that we have together are paid off in June, and Mike gets his company truck, i don't like fighting in front of my child, and the sex life is gone, and i'm sick to death of my in-laws, just sick of the drama in my life. My son deserves better than that in life. I think Mom and dad separting will be the best for my son right now..
I believe when i took my vow's for a marriage it would be for life, but things happen for a reason i guess, i had some chances were i could have cheating on him, but i didn't i can wait till the marriage is final, then again i really don't want another man in my life right now, i want to focus on my son and my job right now.
i had enough drama in my life the last 10 years.

[janc]

I was tempted once while married to my first husband who was not affectionate at all. Turns out he was gay and liked teenaged boys! I divorced him pronto. My second husband cheated on his first wife but has not on me. He knew when we got married that I would divorce him instantly if he did. Fortunately he really loves me (I am a handful) and we've had a great life together. He was almost killed in a plane crash 8 years ago and has been impotent since. He actually told me to go get a lover. I told him he was crazy. I did miss sex the first couple of years but I got over it. I'm happy he lived. I probably told you way more than you wanted to hear! Sorry about that.

[Chandra Amaya]

Originally Posted by Tink

My first hubby cheated on me for much of our 7 yr marriage. I absolutely hated him for it. He would go out with another woman and come home and tell me where he'd been, who he'd been with, what they'd done and how I compared to her in bed. It was emotionally devastating to me, as you might imagine.

I have not, and WOULD not ever do anything like that to anyone. I couldn't live with myself after. I would have no self respect left if I did.

I have had very close to the same situation. Although we were only together five years. I know how hard it can be and how it can crush your spirit. I'm glad things have gotten better for both of us *hugs*