Prayers for my girls please

[judy]

Lynne,
I am so sorry for your girls! What a burden of emotions his suicide left them with! The fact that he was mentally ill may help them some, once they really let that sink in. They could never have "fixed" that.

Do you have any suspicions as to where the box may have gone? Rather, as to who may have taken it? I'm so sorry you lost those things that were important to you.

My first love killed himself years ago. I have been told it was due to drugs. We weren't together anymore, but I do have a letter from him not long before he died. He was the love of my life, and I began to realize that I needed to make peace with his suicide now. It is a very confusing thing to make peace with, I'll tell you that. My heart goes out to your girls.

[Janet]

Wow! I feel bad that your girls are the ones that have to take care of the expenses on top of all the emotions and loss that they are feeling.

The box that is missing, that's scary. I would go crazy wondering what happened to it. I have a small safe and now I'm wondering if I should find a better place for it. I mean it's heavy, but can be carried. I hope it shows up soon.

[DianaB]

Your girls shouldn't be paying for the whole funeral!! Is the wife helping out? She's the one that has all of his "stuff" and the responsibility should be hers......not the girls!! Was she there to help decide funeral arrangements? That sounds stinky to me!!

As for the locked box.....I'd say that you will find it. It's probably still there but you've misplaced it with everything that's been going on. I can't imagine that someone would come in and only that that one item......you'd notice other things missing.

[JJJ]

I think they need to straighten things out with the wife. The wife should be setting the funeral and the girls should just be helping out.

I'm sorry about the box. I hope nobody took it in a desperate moment and hopefully it's just misplace.

[lynne b]

Thanks again for all your thoughts and prayers. I do think the girls will talk with her about the expsense's.

I am driving myself crazy looking for the box, every time i go into a room i check it over, and trying to re trace my steps. No one has been in the house, other than my oldest daughter a couple of weeks ago, and i definatly know it's not her, youngest daughter knew nothing about it, other than that no one has been here while we have been home. It's really messing with my head though.
Thanks again

[Janet]

Didn't you tell me one time that someone, can't remember if it was a relative or not, was in your house while you and Keith weren't home? Keith just happened to come home and they were there? I can't remember all the details. Something about they found your key? It's been awhile since you told me that of course, but could it have happened again?

Whatever happened, I hope you find it soon.

[lynne b]

Originally Posted by Janet

Didn't you tell me one time that someone, can't remember if it was a relative or not, was in your house while you and Keith weren't home? Keith just happened to come home and they were there? I can't remember all the details. Something about they found your key? It's been awhile since you told me that of course, but could it have happened again?

Whatever happened, I hope you find it soon.

Yes Janet, Keith did find my youngest daughters ex here one day and we did let the sheriff know about him.