What's Going On........

[DIANE W]

Diana.... As i have said in previous posts i feel so sorry for Dae Lynn and her situation, i agree with Janet it is only her that can make the decision to try again - i hope he doesnt hurt her again.

Glen is just probably so upset about her giving him another chance, i can sort of understand it if i am honest - i am not as forgiving as i think you are Diana, but then when you are involved and have a relationship with him, that has to alter your feelings for him, and as you said you do like him, just not what he had done.

I hope everything works out for them and you, as if they do move out and start their own lives independently, it will ease homelife for you a little, you can get your home back.

I really hope Dae Lynn and Damon make a go of it for everyones sake, including the kids, and that his Dad lives upto his promise of the money.

[judy]

I am glad that Dae Lynn and Damon are going to give it another try. They do have children together, and you just never know what people are going to do. Damon may find the strength within himself to turn it around. This group sounds very good. Support groups are so helpful in these types of problems.

I will pray for them.

[DianaB]

Thanks everyone. I really hope that things are better for the two of them this time. He should know this time that she really means that she'll leave him if it happens again and I really do think that he loves her. It's just going to take some time for the family to get used to the idea and accept him. He is still a very sore spot with some of the family which I don't like. I sure hope that "time heals all wounds" because this is going to take a LONG time for everyone to get over.

I got to see the house today.......it's nice but still an old house. It has a new bedroom that's been added on and is nice. The house has only one bathroom but there's room in the back to add on another one......and the kitchen is VERY small, but can be opened up into the dining area. It has possibilities. Damon has helped some people at church remodel a home and he did a really good job so hopefully if they get this he'll be able to do some of the work himself. I hope that they can work things out where they can get it!!

[Janet]

I hope so too Diana. Dae Lynn wants it to work and I want her to be happy.

[DianaB]

Grrrrrrr..........I get SO tired of Glen's attitude about Damon!!! They are going to KC tonight and staying a couple of nights and he is upset over THAT!! Every little thing they do he's upset over. Things were better for awhile........when I was upset with Damon too but now that I'm not we're at odds with each other. He's almost mean about things. My stress had gotten better but I've felt it come right back. Glen is usually so loving and forgiving but not about Damon. It's so out of character for him. I really wonder if he's going through male menopause.......he's so different from what he has been in the past.

[Janet]

Can the two of you get away so you can talk about it? Maybe get to the root of what's making him so angry? Maybe it's other things too and since Damon hurt his daughter, he's taking it out on him. Whatever it is, I'm sure he doesn't like feeling mean....you need to speak with him Diana.

[DianaB]

I just end up getting upset with him when we talk about Damon so right now it's best just to avoid talking to him about it. I think that Dae Lynn will move out before too long and hopefully that will make things better. I think that just seeing and hearing the every day things makes him upset. They both had a talk this morning and I stayed in the living room and out of the conversation. I'm afraid that only time will make things better. Who knows......when Dae Lynn moves out I just might go with her!!! Not really but sometimes I think that I might!!!!