What's Going On........

[DianaB]

Thanks everyone. I really hope that things are better for the two of them this time. He should know this time that she really means that she'll leave him if it happens again and I really do think that he loves her. It's just going to take some time for the family to get used to the idea and accept him. He is still a very sore spot with some of the family which I don't like. I sure hope that "time heals all wounds" because this is going to take a LONG time for everyone to get over.

I got to see the house today.......it's nice but still an old house. It has a new bedroom that's been added on and is nice. The house has only one bathroom but there's room in the back to add on another one......and the kitchen is VERY small, but can be opened up into the dining area. It has possibilities. Damon has helped some people at church remodel a home and he did a really good job so hopefully if they get this he'll be able to do some of the work himself. I hope that they can work things out where they can get it!!

[Janet]

I hope so too Diana. Dae Lynn wants it to work and I want her to be happy.

[DianaB]

Grrrrrrr..........I get SO tired of Glen's attitude about Damon!!! They are going to KC tonight and staying a couple of nights and he is upset over THAT!! Every little thing they do he's upset over. Things were better for awhile........when I was upset with Damon too but now that I'm not we're at odds with each other. He's almost mean about things. My stress had gotten better but I've felt it come right back. Glen is usually so loving and forgiving but not about Damon. It's so out of character for him. I really wonder if he's going through male menopause.......he's so different from what he has been in the past.

[Janet]

Can the two of you get away so you can talk about it? Maybe get to the root of what's making him so angry? Maybe it's other things too and since Damon hurt his daughter, he's taking it out on him. Whatever it is, I'm sure he doesn't like feeling mean....you need to speak with him Diana.

[DianaB]

I just end up getting upset with him when we talk about Damon so right now it's best just to avoid talking to him about it. I think that Dae Lynn will move out before too long and hopefully that will make things better. I think that just seeing and hearing the every day things makes him upset. They both had a talk this morning and I stayed in the living room and out of the conversation. I'm afraid that only time will make things better. Who knows......when Dae Lynn moves out I just might go with her!!! Not really but sometimes I think that I might!!!!

[Janet]

I hope that Glenn can see that being upset and angry isn't helping him or his health. There are just some things we have no control over and we can't always make our kids see things the way we think they should see them.

If and when Dae Lynn decides to move back with Damon, I also hope the family will give him a chance. There is something good in this young man if Dae Lynn can see it.

[DianaB]

Ok.....Glen's doing better. I told him that he was being very unforgiving and accused him of being like his MOTHER!! He didn't like that one!! Dae Lynn and I can both tell that his attitude is better about the situation. I'm glad. I truly hope that Damon never does another thing wrong. LOL