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Old 07-03-2013, 08:53 AM   #1
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I'm so sorry that you're dealing with this still. I do think that writing him out of your will is a little soon. I personally would just leave that alone and see what happens with this girl.......and then......do you really want your Mom's things sold and going home with a stranger......instead of going to Ricky?

I think that if Ricky moved out that would probably help you. It is hard to know when they're spending time together and if he lived somewhere else you wouldn't necessarally know each coming and going.

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Old 07-03-2013, 06:57 PM   #2
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Gosh Janet, you're in a hard spot! You and Ricky have always been so close, and now you feel like you've lost him to someone else...and it's to someone you hate and is awful for him. You need to do what you have to for your own peace of mind. In Texas, if you inherit something, your spouse can't touch it if it has been kept seperate from the couples shared accounts. She would be able to get half of any interest made from the money, but not the money itself. You might want to check your state laws. Good luck my friend, my prayers are with you!
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Old 07-04-2013, 06:58 AM   #3
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do you really want your Mom's things sold and going home with a stranger......instead of going to Ricky?
If Mom's things have any chance of going to this girl or her family...yes, I would rather strangers have them or they all be destroyed.

We have worked for all we have and Ricky should do the same. You're right Diana, it would help if Ricky had his own place, but he just can't afford it. He just doesn't make enough to pay rent and utilities while paying two student loans, paying off a credit card debt (that he shouldn't never even have), he also bought some tools so makes a payment to them every month. Don't know what he was thinking.

So until then, he...we're stuck. I may be to move...lol....I can afford it now....lol
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